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Copium – the Psychology of why Some People Can’t Accept „No”
Copium has risen to describe a very human psychological phenomenon—our tendency to deny harsh realities by indulging in optimistic delusions or hopeful justifications. The word itself is a portmanteau of „cope” and „opium,” metaphorically suggesting that people „inhale” this imaginary drug to numb themselves from the pain of defeat, loss, or rejection. One of the clearest examples of Copium is seen in people who do not take „no” for an answer. Whether in relationships, work, or politics, these individuals refuse to accept rejection, failure or the other way. Instead, they latch on to any shred of hope, exaggerate possibilities, or invent alternate narratives that allow them to keep believing in…
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Dead horse meaning
The „Dead Horse Problem” is a metaphorical concept describing human tendency to persist in failing efforts or unproductive work rather than acknowledge their shortcomings and change course. The phrase is often attributed to an old Native American saying from the Dakota tribe: „When you find that you are riding a dead horse, the best strategy is to dismount.” Despite the obviousness of the situation (the horse is dead), people and organizations often stick with ineffective strategies, investing more resources, energy, and/or time, hoping for a turnaround that never comes. This metaphor captures refusal to accept reality and continue with doomed projects, relationships, or plans This is leading to wasted effort…
